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Thai Bar girl think im in love?

I met this bargirl in Thailand about a month ago she was amazing and pretty and just stole my heart. The problem is I don’t want to loose my contact with her. She goes on msn alot for me and I phone her alot. My mates tell me that i should end it but I can’t i would rather have her than knowone and go back to being lonely England is so depressing!

When im talking to her I feel amazing but when shes not there like at work i feel so sad its effecting my work shes on my mind 24/7. I’ve read all the stuff about bar girls but I never really paid her much and she seems really genuine she carrys a photo of me in her wallet!

Id love to work in Thailand and marry a Thai lady has anyone else her fallen for a bar girl?

P.S, I don’t send her any money i want to go back and see her again in Feb though for sure.

Yeah, I’ve had a fair amount of experience with this. I understand what you’re going through. Maybe I can help.

First, yes it’s true a lot of these girls are experts at playing ‘the game’. In fact, many casual travelers have learned hard lessons. But it’s not just with bar girls. There are plenty of ‘regular’ girls that are out to play unsuspecting farangs. They string several guys along at the same time, and if you ever see their buddy list on messenger you can see just how many she’s got. But keep in mind, from a certain point of view these girls are just playing it smart. She might really be into some guy, but how does she know he’s not lying just to get sex for her. So, she plays the odds, hoping that Mr. Right is one of those guys on her buddy list.

Then, there are bar girls who meet and fall in love with some guy and there are no games involved at all. So how do you know? Well, my advice to to proceed slow. I understand exactly what you feel when you’re with this girl. Thai women are some of the coolest women on the planet. They’re beautiful, they’ve got great sense of humor, and they know how to take care of guys. But, they can also be some of the most cleaver/devious girls around. Especially (and I hate to say this) but bargirls. So you just have to go slow, and time will bear out her true personality.

Also, keep in mind, there are many similar Thai fish in the Thai ocean. In other words, if you spend any time at all (and it sounds like you would like to) in Thailand, you will meet numerous equally beautiful and very cool girls. I’m sort of like your dad telling you not to buy the first car you test drive.

So, go back in Feb, have a great time with her, but keep your eyes open. If she’s really the one, the space and time apart won’t matter. And if she’s not the one, at least now you know which ones you like and where to find them.

Choke Dee!!

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